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The Art of Thinking Before You Act: 15 Tips to Respond Rather Than React

Jay Clair
7 min readNov 9, 2022

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There is an art to thinking before you act, it is a skill that not many currently have. Learning the ability to respond rather than react is a way of elevating your emotional IQ and will earn you the respect of your peers. The benefits of this type of thinking can be seen in many different aspects of life, from relationships to money.

Think before you act and reap the rewards! Here are 15 tips to help you on your way.

1. Gain perspective:

This is important because it will allow you to step back in order to see the bigger picture. When you hear something that may trigger a reaction, learn to understand that reaction and to think before you act.

This will allow you to get the perspective on the given situation to then stop think and figure out the best course of action.

In the example above, this would be “Is this a reaction or is this a reaction to a reaction?” This question will help you gain perspective and help you determine your best course of action.

2. Use empathy:

Empathy is the ability to imagine how someone else feels in a given situation. If you are able to understand their point of view, then this will give you more information and…

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Jay Clair
Jay Clair

Written by Jay Clair

Head of Marketing at Bluesfest. SEO Nerd & Writer. About Me: Contrarian, rational optimist, curiosity is king.

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